The Wedding Day: affection of the parents to the bride and groom

Hands button the cufflinks of the shirt, in the dress for the wedding, composed by the wedding photographer in Portugal.

THE LAST AFFECTION by THE WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER IN PORTUGAL

Hands button the cufflinks of the shirt, in the dress for the wedding, composed by the wedding photographer in Portugal.

Some photos of when the groom’s parents helped him prepare for his wedding day


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The Wedding Preparation: Capturing Unforgettable Moments

Father, in a mirror, helps his son to put on his wedding suit vest.

As a wedding photographer, I know that every detail of the wedding day is important. From the very first moments, the preparation of the bride and groom is one of the most emotional and meaningful moments. The preparation is not just about getting dressed or choosing accessories; it is often the last moment when parents can take care of their children before the ceremony. This is a unique moment that deserves to be immortalised, and it is with this attentive eye that the wedding photographer captures memories that last forever.

The Wedding Photographer’s Role in Preparing the Bride and Groom

Mother of the groom, with him, while buttoning his wedding coat vest.

The preparation of the bride and groom is often one of the first emotional moments of the wedding day. As a wedding photographer, I always try to pay attention to every detail. The preparation involves gestures that are sometimes unnoticed but represent so much to those who experience them. For parents, it is the last time they can care for their child intimately and lovingly before the big step.

  • The groom’s moment
    • The father’s help in putting on the jacket, a gesture of care and support.
    • The mother’s proud look as she adjusts the groom’s vest.
    • The approving smile when the groom is ready for the wedding ceremony.
  • The closeness and affection of the parents
    • Small gestures of affection, such as a hug or kiss, are made before leaving for the ceremony.
    • The constant support to ensure everything is perfect, whether with the outfit or with small details like an item to be taken to the ceremony.

These seemingly simple gestures are, in fact, profound moments of affection. When the wedding photographer captures these scenes, they are recording much more than physical actions; they are preserving emotional memories for life.

The Value of Wedding Photographs: Eternal Moments

Boy watches the groom's preparation for the wedding.

When I look at the wedding photographs I take, I realise how much these preparation moments mean to the bride, groom, and their families. The wedding photographer is not just a passive observer; he is an emotion-capturer. Each image has the power to bring back the sensations and feelings that were present in that special moment.

  • The impact of lenses in capturing emotions
    • The lenses I use are not just tools to turn what I see into images; they are real “eyes” that capture and amplify the emotions that arise during the wedding.
    • Each lens has a unique function: some are perfect for capturing wide shots of the ceremony, while others capture the small details of a smile or intimate gesture.
  • Managing the dynamics of the wedding
    • In every phase of the wedding, the wedding photographer adjusts his lenses to ensure that the most important moments are captured uniquely and powerfully.
    • In the church, for example, the lens used to photograph the altar will not be the same as the one used to capture the groom’s emotion when he says, “Yes, I do.”

This care for details and attention to the wedding environment is essential to create a complete photographic narrative that tells the story of the wedding day authentically.

The Morning at the Parents’ House: An Emotional Gathering

Mother checks son's wedding dress.

Another moment that deeply touches me is when I am a wedding photographer at the bride and groom’s parents’ house early in the morning. The house is filled with emotions and memories that make the environment unique. Every corner of the house, every glance, every gesture holds deep meaning, transforming the images into something even more special.

  • Family energy
    • There is something special about being in the midst of a family sharing moments of joy, nervousness, and emotion before the big ceremony.
    • The way parents behave towards the bride or groom is unique, and as a wedding photographer, I have the privilege of capturing that emotional energy.
  • The photographer’s lens function
    • Lenses are more than tools for capturing images; they help tell the story of the wedding in a way that words cannot. Each lens has the power to highlight a specific detail, whether it is the shine in the parents’ eyes or the groom’s nervousness before entering the church.

How the Wedding Photographer Captures Crucial Moments

A hand adjusts the groom's suit coat.

As a wedding photographer, choosing the right lenses is crucial to ensure that all the moments, from the preparation to the exchange of vows, are immortalised in the best possible way.

  • Managing moments and emotions
    • In the preparation phase, for example, the details of the outfit, the anxiety, and the smiles are captured uniquely.
    • When the ceremony begins, the appropriate lens is used to capture the emotion on the bride and groom’s faces and the faces of the guests.
  • Communication with lenses
    • Throughout the wedding day, the lenses and the photographer are in constant communication, adjusting to the situation to ensure the most important moments are photographed to perfection.

Conclusion: The Wedding Photographer as a Guardian of Memories

Every wedding is unique, and as a wedding photographer, my goal is to ensure that every meaningful moment, from the preparation to the ceremony, is carefully recorded. A photographer’s job goes beyond technique; it’s about capturing the emotions, gestures, and moments that will allow the bride, groom, and their families to relive that special day for years to come.


Contact Me for Your Wedding

If you are planning your wedding and want to ensure that every moment is captured uniquely and emotionally, get in touch with me. Together, we can create memories that will accompany you and your loved ones for a lifetime. Schedule a meeting and discover the incredible work I can do for your big day!


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By Fernando Colaço

I am Fernando Colaço a wedding photographer based in Portugal. My approach to wedding photography is open and not intruder, leaving the event just to happen. We may call it photojournalism. But, it is better to let the photos talk. I am at your service.

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