The photographer and the sincerity of the photos in weddings

Three friends of the groom hold him for a photo with the wedding photographer, at the wedding party at the Ponto Final restaurant.

IT IS TRUE by THE PORTUGAL WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER

Three friends of the groom hold him for a photo with the wedding photographer, at the wedding party at the Ponto Final restaurant.

Photos of the bride and groom with a friend, the bride in conversation, and others on the afternoon of the wedding party, waiting for the wedding cake


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Truth in Wedding Photographs

At the door of the Ponto Final restaurant in Ginjal, in Cacilhas, the bride chats with two female friends, guests of the wedding.

As a wedding photographer, I have the privilege of witnessing and documenting unique, intimate, and unrepeatable moments. It’s a craft that goes far beyond technique: it’s a way of honouring those who invite me into one of the most meaningful days of their lives — their wedding day.

This article, inspired by Helena and João’s wedding, is a reflection on how truth reveals itself in wedding photography and how simplicity can contain the most genuine emotions.

Emotion Lies in the Details

The bride's cake with a couple of engaged dolls on top and the couple's daughter behind, out of focus.

While selecting the final images, I noticed a tendency to choose those that stand out for their bold compositions or immediate visual impact. But with time, the eye shifts. What remains is not just the aesthetic — it’s the raw emotion, the connection between the bride and groom, and the affection among their wedding guests.

It was a small wedding — the smallest I’ve ever fully photographed — but it was rich in life, laughter, and affection. And, above all, in truth.

Wedding Photographs with Soul

A friend of the newly married couple takes a picture of them with her daughter in their midst, during the wedding party at Ponto Final in Cacilhas.

The image selection showed a pattern: the simplest ones were also the most powerful. No posed moments, no gimmicks. Just real life.

  • Looks exchanged between the bride and groom, full of tenderness;
  • Spontaneous laughter among friends;
  • Quiet emotional moments, captured just in time.

These are the images that matter. They may never win wedding photography awards, but they win the most important recognition: that of the couple, seeing themselves honestly.

Wedding Size Doesn’t Define Its Beauty

The groom kisses the hair of a neighbor of the parents, very dear to him, between him and the bride.

It’s easy to think that bigger weddings offer more photographic opportunities. More guests, more details. But as a wedding photographer, I know that’s not always the case.

  • Small weddings offer less distraction, allowing for more intimate focus.
  • Every guest’s presence holds more emotional weight;
  • The couple feels freer, resulting in more natural, heartfelt photos.

This wedding reminded me of all that.

What I Look for as a Wedding Photographer

My work isn’t just about making visually striking images. It’s about capturing relationships. It’s about showing, through wedding photography, the connections between the couple and their chosen people. It’s a visual listening process.

Every wedding day is different:

  • Every couple brings a unique story.
  • Every ceremony has its rituals and meanings.
  • Every guest expresses affection in their way.

This is where I thrive: in authenticity. When I leave a wedding feeling I’ve captured that truth, I know I’ve done my job.

Photos That Stay for Life

In the final selection, the photos that stayed were the ones that moved me with their sincerity. Simple but meaningful. At first glance, maybe not “special,” but deeply essential.

  • They show true love between the newlyweds;
  • They reveal genuine joy among guests;
  • They document meaningful little moments.

These are the images couples will treasure for years to come.

Point by Point: The Selection Process

When choosing images for my blog, I follow two approaches: emotional and aesthetic. This time, emotion won.

  • Small weddings can surprise you. They’re often more emotionally rich than larger ones;
  • Today’s photos aren’t looking for awards, but they carry emotional weight and generosity;
  • The real value lies in the connection between the photographer and the couple, between the bride and groom and their guests, and between every shot and the memory it carries.

What You Should Know

If you’re planning your wedding, keep this in mind:

  • The magic lies in the people, not the size.
  • What makes a photo album timeless is the truth.
  • Your wedding day will be unique, and it deserves to be documented with care, respect, and attention.

Conclusion:

This wedding was a reminder that greatness often lives in small details. As a wedding photographer, I carry with me the mission to capture that truth. And every time I succeed, I know I fulfilled my purpose.


Get in Touch

If you value wedding photographs that capture genuine emotions and meaningful moments, let’s talk. I’d love to hear your story and help you preserve the essence of your wedding day with honesty and care.


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The wedding in the photographs took place at Restaurante Ponto Final in Cacilhas, Almada.

By Fernando Colaço

I am Fernando Colaço a wedding photographer based in Portugal. My approach to wedding photography is open and not intruder, leaving the event just to happen. We may call it photojournalism. But, it is better to let the photos talk. I am at your service.

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