The Wedding Ceremony: kisses and hugs for the photographer

Wedding couple on departure, in a VW Beetle car, for the party after the ceremony at Quinta da Cascata.

CONGRATULATIONS by THE WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER IN LISBON

Wedding couple on departure, in a VW Beetle car, for the party after the ceremony at Quinta da Cascata.

The photos are of the exit from the church after the wedding ceremony, with the bride and groom receiving congratulations


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The wedding photographer in the whirlwind of congratulations

Bride and groom leaving the Church, after the wedding ceremony.

The ceremony exit: the start of an intense moment

Wedding photographers know there’s a particularly chaotic and emotional moment that follows the end of the wedding ceremony: the avalanche of congratulations to the bride and groom. It’s in that instant, as the newlyweds exit the ceremony, that a whirlwind of hugs, kind words, laughter, tears, and little gestures begins—authentic highlights of the wedding day.

Here, the wedding photographer finds one of the most unpredictable and touching phases of the entire event. Everything unfolds at an incredible pace, with every second offering a new expression, glance, or spontaneous gesture worthy of being immortalised in wedding photographs.

Bride and groom in the spotlight

Bride wrapped in guests after the ceremony.

The emotional intensity of these minutes is impossible to ignore. As soon as they exit the ceremony, the couple is surrounded by wedding guests, eager to share messages of affection and congratulations.

Typical phrases heard by the couple:

  • “Congratulations, you looked amazing!”
  • “Wishing you all the happiness in the world.”
  • “Give me a hug, I missed you.”
  • “Now it’s our turn. Shall we eat?”
  • “Mind your behaviour, alright?”

While all this happens, the wedding photographer remains alert, discreet, constantly moving, ready to capture each piece of this beautiful chaos. It’s a high-speed mission filled with challenges, but one that truly inspires anyone passionate about wedding photography.

The technical and emotional challenge

Bride with bouquet receiving congratulations from guests.

Being a wedding photographer at this point in the day is a true test of reflexes, technical skill, and emotional insight. At every step, someone crosses the lens. At every click, someone reaches in for another hug. But it’s within this organised chaos that some of the most authentic wedding photographs are born.

What typically happens at this stage:

  • Guests want to touch, hug, and kiss the couple.
  • A circle of affection and energy forms around them.
  • Emotions run high for both guests and the couple.
  • Light, movement, and smiles change every second.

It’s a moment where anything can happen—and it always does. The photographer must anticipate the unpredictable, dodge unintentional hugs, and still capture what matters most: true emotion.

Photographing with heart and sharp eyes

Bride posing for a photo, with guests after the wedding ceremony.

Each wedding photographer brings their unique eye to this moment. I love this chapter of the day. Even with all the chaos, the accidental bumps, and perspectives changing in a flash, this is when I feel most in my element.

Why this moment is special to me:

Church square with guests of the bride and groom and VW Beatle car.
  • It’s when the couple is at their most emotionally open.
  • Guests genuinely pour out their affection.
  • Every click holds the potential for a memorable photo.
  • It’s a moment I’d photograph even if I weren’t hired.

It’s not just a task. It’s a passion. This is one of those wedding day phases where I stop being the hired professional and simply become the photographer—the one who doesn’t want to miss a thing, who feels honoured to witness it all.

Key points couples should know

  • This will be one of the most intense and joyful moments of your wedding day.
  • Every guest will want to show their love and affection.
  • The energy is unmatched at any other time during the event.
  • It’s a golden chance to capture wedding photographs filled with pure love.
Bride, with the bouquet in her hand, hugging a woman guest with another in the right.

Conclusion:

The whirlwind of congratulations after the wedding ceremony is an emotional explosion—a mix of joy, surprise, nostalgia, excitement, and humour. And that’s the beauty of it. As a wedding photographer, I’ll be there, eyes and heart wide open, capturing everything that makes this moment unforgettable.


Let’s talk?

If you’re planning your wedding and looking for someone who values the spontaneous details, I invite you to a meeting. I’d love to hear your ideas, share my portfolio, and show you how your wedding photographs can truly reflect your story.


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By Fernando Colaço

I am Fernando Colaço a wedding photographer based in Portugal. My approach to wedding photography is open and not intruder, leaving the event just to happen. We may call it photojournalism. But, it is better to let the photos talk. I am at your service.

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