The True Work of a Wedding Photographer

Detail of the bride's face when her eyes are painted during preparation for the ceremony, by the wedding photographer in Lisbon.

HOW TO FIND OUT by THE WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER IN PORTUGAL

Detail of the bride's face when her eyes are painted during preparation for the ceremony, by the wedding photographer in Lisbon.

Some photos of the bride preparing for her wedding with friends and their dogs


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What a Wedding Photographer Really Does

Bride in a mirror in front of her, hands clasped, as she looks at something, as she prepares for the ceremony.

Being a wedding photographer is much more than just holding a camera and taking pictures. It’s about telling real stories, in real-time, with sensitivity and an eye for detail. It’s the ability to become invisible on an emotionally charged day while capturing unique moments of the wedding day.

If you think the photographer’s job ends at taking pictures, think again. Behind beautiful wedding photographs, there’s a world of preparation, travel, physical effort, editing, and above all, the sensitivity to capture what is authentic and timeless.

The storyteller racing against time

The bride's two dogs, lying on the floor looking at her as she prepared for the ceremony.

At the start of the day, the wedding photographer enters the home of the bride or groom’s parents, where everything begins. The nervous excitement, heartfelt hugs, last-minute touches – it’s already part of the story.

Then the running begins – literally. Travelling quickly between locations: the house, the church, or the venue where the wedding ceremony will be held. Often, there’s nowhere to park, and the equipment is heavy, but the eyes remain alert.

Not just a photographer – an athlete too

• Climbs stairs four steps at a time for the perfect angle
• Runs non-stop chasing fleeting moments
• Stands for hours carrying kilograms of gear
• Adapts to any space: walls, chairs, narrow corridors – whatever it takes

This physical side is often unseen, but it’s vital for capturing the best wedding photography. Agility and stamina are key.

Invisible, yet present – the wedding photographer’s superpower

The wedding rings in a floral arrangement of roses and daisies.

A good wedding photographer knows how to be present without being noticed. Discretion is essential so that the bride, groom, and wedding guests remain natural. The most genuine images appear when people forget the camera is there.

The photographer’s discreet superpowers:

• Becomes a silent statue in corners, waiting
• Moves quietly to capture real expressions
• Observes from a distance to allow natural emotion
• Captures that exact moment when a look says it all

This “invisibility” is where the magic happens. No forced poses. No repeated scenes. Just authentic emotion in motion.

The job doesn’t end when the party does

The bride's friends, already wearing a dress, next to her, when one of them puts on a pair of shoes.

Once the party is over, the wedding photographer’s real editing journey begins. Reviewing, selecting, editing, and organizing images to tell the story of the day.

• Each photo is edited with care
• A narrative is created through image curation
• The goal: to retell the wedding day with emotion and authenticity
• The final product becomes a timeless album of memories

The professional habit of peeking

Once ready for the ceremony, the bride talks to a boy with a hat on his head.

This may be the most curious part of the job. The wedding photographer is, essentially, a professional “peeker”. A silent observer seeking gestures, timid smiles, fleeting tears, and spontaneous encounters.

They peek at:
• Rooms where the bride is getting ready
• The car where the groom takes a deep breath before walking in
• The entrance to the wedding ceremony, full of emotion
• The backstage moments that hold just as much meaning

Yes, they peek. But never tell. The wedding photographs do that – they tell what was seen without being noticed, with truth and tenderness.


Conclusion:

Being a wedding photographer means wearing many hats and often becoming invisible. It means being present in every detail without disturbing the moment. It’s the ability to turn the ordinary into extraordinary. To run, observe, carry, climb, and peek – all to deliver a visual legacy, a tangible memory of your wedding day.

It’s demanding but deeply fulfilling. Because in the end, each image is a love story told with honesty, emotion, and dedication.


Let’s talk about your special day

If you’re looking for someone to capture the real spirit of your wedding – with emotion, authenticity, and attention to detail – let’s talk. Together, we can create a unique and personalised visual record of your wedding day. Your story is one of a kind, and it deserves to be told that way.


  • You can see a full wedding story:

Next to a large vintage car, the bride is preparing to enter with her parents who are helping her.

 

By Fernando Colaço

I am Fernando Colaço a wedding photographer based in Portugal. My approach to wedding photography is open and not intruder, leaving the event just to happen. We may call it photojournalism. But, it is better to let the photos talk. I am at your service.

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