The Wedding Party: the father of the bride is back

The bride's father in a speech during the wedding party dinner, by the wedding photographer.

AGAIN, THE FATHER OF THE BRIDE by THE WEDDING PHOTOGRAPHER IN NAZARÉ

The bride's father in a speech during the wedding party dinner, by the wedding photographer.

Some photos of the bride’s father giving a speech, her reaction, and that of others in the wedding party


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A Delicious Photographic Moment at the Wedding

A wedding guest applauds the bride's father's speech.

Wedding photographers have the privilege of capturing magical moments that remain forever in the memories of the bride, groom, and their guests. Every gesture, every smile, and even tears are part of a unique and emotional story. One of the moments that most attracts me as a wedding photographer is the speeches.

Often, the father of the bride, especially, is the star of these speeches full of emotion and affection. I’ve previously written that speeches are not always a common practice at weddings, but when they do happen, they are a true photographic delight. The genuine expression of feelings that marks the wedding ceremony is one element that cannot be missed in my wedding photographs.

The World Through the Lens of a Wedding Photographer

Bride cries when she listens to her father's speech.

When I’m behind the lens, I try to capture everything that happens, although, as wedding photographers, we are often victims of “auditory amnesia.” We are so focused on what we see through the lens that we usually can’t process everything that is said or happens around us. However, the gestures, expressions, and reactions of everyone, especially the parents, are captured uniquely and unmistakably.

The Key Role of the Father of the Bride in the Wedding

The bride's mother laughing while listening to her husband's speech at her daughter's wedding party.

The parents of the bride play a crucial role on the wedding day. They are with their daughter in all the important moments and stand by her side both in moments of nervousness and celebration. The father of the bride, specifically, is one of the most exciting and important protagonists of the day. See below some characteristics and moments in which he stands out.

Memorable Moments of the Father of the Bride at the Wedding

  • Before the Ceremony:
    • The father of the bride is one of the most nervous people at the wedding, carrying the responsibility of escorting his daughter to the altar.
    • He helps his daughter with every detail, offering the necessary support to make sure she’s ready for the big day.
    • He accompanies her to the ceremony venue, where anxiety blends with emotion.
  • During the Wedding Ceremony:
    • Walking beside his daughter down the aisle, the father of the bride expresses his pride and emotion in delivering his daughter to her new life with the groom.
    • Every glance, every gesture is a wedding photograph full of feelings and meanings.
  • After the Wedding Ceremony:
    • The father of the bride, now more relaxed, celebrates the moment with joy and pride, showing everyone his happiness.
    • At many weddings, the father of the bride is one of the most festive and dedicated to ensuring that all guests have fun and feel comfortable.
  • At the Wedding Reception:
    • During the reception, the father of the bride spreads joy to everyone, whether through laughter or moments of affection.
    • He makes sure that the wedding guests are well taken care of and that they enjoy the celebration.
    • The father’s speeches, whether emotional, humorous, or grateful, are moments that offer many opportunities for the wedding photographer to capture unforgettable images.

Wedding Photographer and the Magic of the Speech

The bride's father in a toast to the bride and groom.

Speeches are special moments, and for the wedding photographer, they are a great opportunity to capture the genuine emotions of the attendees. Each word spoken has the power to turn a simple moment into a wedding photograph full of meaning.

  • The Father of the Bride in the Speech:
    • Some fathers stand out for their eloquence and oratory, moving everyone with deep and touching words.
    • Others, more shy or emotional, reveal their true feelings through simple but heartfelt words.
    • There are also those who, with a touch of humor, manage to make everyone laugh, making the atmosphere even more relaxed and joyful.

The Unique Role of the Father of the Bride Compared to the Father of the Groom

  • Delivering the Daughter to the Altar:
    • The father of the bride is the one who accompanies her down the aisle, creating a moment of unique visibility. The groom’s father, on the other hand, remains seated and waits for the bride’s mother to escort her son to the altar.
  • Personality and Style:
    • The father of the bride can be shy, reserved, but he can also be extroverted, playful, and full of humor. Each one has their way of behaving and reacting to this symbolic moment.
  • Emotions and Reactions:
    • The father of the bride reacts in different ways to the emotion of the moment. Some are more visible and demonstrative, while others are more reserved, but they all undoubtedly contribute to the emotional impact of the day.

Conclusion:

As a wedding photographer, I am lucky to capture these special and emotional moments. Each father of the bride is unique, and each one contributes differently to the wedding story. Their emotions, gestures, and words are transformed into images that will forever tell the story of the bride and groom’s wedding day. If you want to capture the magic of your wedding in the same way, contact me. It would be a pleasure to show you my work and learn more about your plans for this big day.


If you want your wedding to be immortalized in photographs that capture the most genuine emotions and the most special moments, don’t hesitate to contact me. I would love to discuss how I can help make your day unforgettable through wedding photography. Let’s discuss your plans and make your special day even more memorable!


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By Fernando Colaço

I am Fernando Colaço a wedding photographer based in Portugal. My approach to wedding photography is open and not intruder, leaving the event just to happen. We may call it photojournalism. But, it is better to let the photos talk. I am at your service.

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